From Detachment of Human Doctrine to Stages of Human Development and Reconnection to Universal Truths - Part I

Disclaimer

I feel that I need to put a disclaimer out there, as my words of today, might be received as highly controversial to those not ready to hear them. To those who are sensitive to content connected to spirituality, religion and cultural conviction, do not read my post as it may be triggering. On the other hand to those looking for actual enlightenment, please continue.

All of which I'm forwarding to you is while attuning to what I am feeling deep inside, what is of importance to the audience today, right here right now. Please note that I really want to share powerful messages of revelation. Some of which I'm going through myself, anything that can in turn be of great inspiration for the audience.

Today I did not even need to seek for a topic, because it came to me. And that is the right kind of way with messages begging to be heard, it simply needed to come out and with good timing because I promised a new blogpost.

Thank you

First of all, I'd like to place a thank you all for reading my first post Priorities Of Life, for the great reception to it. Because even though I've had platforms of my own, there was a lack of positive response in the past, to the messages that I have to share with the world. And whether it was coming from a place of jealousy or simple not grasping any of the contents, I'll never truly know. But let's just say that the encouragement and messages here have helped tremendously in moving on from the past.

Proceeding to the article

Over time there has been a lot of back and forth in our human society and existence about who is right or wrong and who we should be in alliance with. The never-ending story of the good and the bad. Endlessly creating division. What faith should we sign up for? What political group is fighting for the right cause? What university should I go to? What will everyone think of me when I say I'm a stay-at-home mom?

We're being taught at a young age, that life is all about choice and humanity in itself tends to be a very physical focused race. Even if they claim to be spiritual in their culture. Programming is taking place a lot when the minds are still flexible and vulnerable. It is one of the reasons why trauma tends to be so difficult to be removed as adults when it has occurred to us as children, yet not so difficult to heal as a child. To some, this is common knowledge and nothing groundbreaking.

But do we also know that it is possible to undo what has been programmed into us at will when we choose to believe? And when life is about choice, then we have a choice to also un-choose. I know that might come across as confusing where I'm going with this. Let me explain. There is a clear distinction between choosing by force, out of fear of rejection or cancellation by our family or peers, or out of love and consideration.

I promised you that this article would lead to the different stages of human development, and especially, human development of understanding. Our brains are not mere organs in control of us, but we can choose to be in control of our brain, and to develop ourselves beyond the human body and its limitations that we are taught. But in order to do so, we have to choose to believe.

In the movie The Matrix, there is a program that is called The Oracle. The hero of the story Neo, is visiting her to learn whether he is The One or not. He himself is not really convinced that he is, and it's not until he almost dies that he becomes The One.

Logically, human society has shown developments over the course of so many centuries, they aren't all bad or good. We are evolving as a species and it is necessary and inevitable.

Doesn't it then also make sense that this is necessary for it to happen on a smaller scale on a more personal level?

If we hold ourselves back by staying in comfort zones, this will slow down the evolution on a larger scale. Yes, read that again more slowly. Holding ourselves back, means to hold back the entire human race in their development. When we resist change, that's when unhappiness tends to kick in.

Over the course of my life, I've concluded that we move through several stages of development when it comes to adopting ideas and ideologies in search for the highest truth. By this time I'm close to an anthropologist. I've observed life over several generations and cultures and belief systems. Generations before us haven't always been good on the generations that came after them, but we are learning and our children have been evolving as empaths and telepaths. It is however, becoming clearer every day, that they have been among us for as long as the existence of human kind.

I'd like to come back to the stages of development, or inner evolution.

Because with some realizations that others go through over the course of (probably several) lifetimes, it feels like I've been able to go through them in one life. And I'm not saying that I'm the only one, it's just that I really need to get this out there and any correlations with studies and researches are definitely coincidental, because the following is what I've come to conclude over the past week and has been brought into my mind from a higher place.

Considering that my life is far from over, there's probably many, many more conclusions coming. For the beforementioned reasons alone, I can say with confidence that as a human being, we definitely have personal inner evolutional or spiritual stages, if we are ready and willing to embrace them.

That in itself, is a choice.

With that being said, here's what human developmental stages or personal inner evolution could look like (along big lines).

1. The first stage – We take the convictions and programming of our parental figures or caretakers and childhood environment

2. The second stage – Depending on our willpower, we start to realize our convictions are not in place because something feels off, we do our best to practice any kind of doctrine we are raised with while playing with the idea that it is not entirely fitting with who we are.

3. The third stage – Our convictions haven't brought us closer to ourselves and we start to rebel against them. If we are brave we will defy and distance ourselves from it. This is the path where we are likely to split towards one extremer form, either an opposing lifestyle or more immersing because we think we will find the missing pieces by force. The slightest encounter with an influential figure or dramatic event can cause us to spiral into a new stage of life that might bring forth more hardship.

4. The fourth stage – We break loose from our old lifestyle whether that is retreating from our past entirely or going into destructive behavior, it might not be all black and white. We might indulge into some unhealthy behavior for the sake of just wanting to figure out who we are deep inside, no longer caring about our upbringing.

5. The fifth stage – It might take us some time to arrive to this fifth stage, most people probably don't arrive at this moment because it might involve tremendous inner strength to admit that the path chosen wasn't one to stick with. We have put a lot of effort into this stage, into people, in careers, so many things. Our entire world is shaken up and we are willing to come to terms with our old life needing to go and that we've cut ourselves short in a lot of things. We might be completely heartbroken, vulnerable and unsure where life is going to lead next, but we realize that we need to move on. This is usually the first awakening state where we know how to stop focusing on external fixes and instead seek the changes within ourselves.

6. The sixth stage – We have had events or encounters that make us feel enlightened, empowered but also scarred and weakened. Unsure where to go but knowing now that we have gained experience in life. We feel compelled to seek a new path with the wisdom gained. It might start as a pink bubble stage but ends with us having mixed feelings with having to say goodbye to a part of us while knowing that it's for the better. We seek for groups that are experiencing similar, and engage in more spiritual practices exploring earthly ways to help us become a better person working from the inside.

7. The seventh stage – Together with our newfound view on life, we head onto a new path in finding what comes next. It feels like the world is laying before us in all its glory and beauty but a cloud might still dampen our path. We have parts of us that we need to solve now that we have gained better insight about ourselves. We might seek help to work on us on the inside through external means by taking care of our body, our mental health and exploring the so-called spiritual body and supernatural senses. At the end of this stage, we might understand that nothing that the world can offer in the material sense, will actually bring us fulfillment. We want to understand what real love is and how to achieve it, for ourselves but also how to bring more love without it coming at the expense of us.

8. The eighth stage – The part where we have been able to successfully pick ourselves back up after experiencing loss, rekindled the connection with ourselves in who we are for the biggest part and are ready to engage on an improved life possibly with a life partner. At this stage a soul mate might enter the scene. We are ready to accept only true love and know how to sustain and nurture it as well. Previous doctrines might still try make a comeback in our life, but we don't truly feel we have a need for it. We are officially able to detach from earthly ways as materialistic temporal states of fulfillments, and have the willpower to put love above all.

Now it doesn't end with the eighth in how far we are able to develop as humans, technically human development doesn't stop.

We are able to continue for as much as we like. As you realize, the human developmental stages (let's start calling it HDS for short) on a personal scale can be compared to a lot of cycles that we are already familiar with, one of them seeing the growth from child to adult and finally death. In HDS death and rebirth plays a tremendous role, f.e. the death of old cycles and new beginnings.

Just as Neo had to die first in order for him to become The One, we all have to experience what it is like to have doubts and know what we aren't. Now how I would like to end this first part, is by mentioning that within these stages people have shown to make the following spiritual and intellectual growth progress, that can be imagined as a spiral inside of a (concentric) circle, that is leading to more gained awareness and understanding as the spiral grows outwards.

Starting with the physical world, their awareness extends towards the direct environment, their questioning about the creation and their role in the world. Their belief system tends to be limited to Gods and deities, and worship (even if they are earthly idols). When they move towards the next, their belief system might be expanded towards the possibility of godlike gifts and powers within themselves and/or the possibility of nonhuman-like intelligence.

With each stage of awareness, a new way of perceiving the world becomes a new reality. And with us our beliefs turn into conviction and reality, and have their own development or progression stages within our human developmental stages as we move through life.

1. Physical, mental, material, religious belief system (and or normalization)

2. Physical, mental, material, religious-spiritual belief system

3. Physical, mental, material, religious-spiritual normalization

4. Physical, mental, material, religious-spiritual, universal belief system

5. Physical, mental, material, religious-spiritual, universal normalization

This is a simple schematic that might need some work and I'd like to improve over time, but all in all this is what I believe can be said and/or pinned down as a general growth progress pattern that we all have experienced to a certain extend in life. We are not meant to stay in any of the stages, we are meant to learn, grow and experience so we become prepared to expand our awareness towards a new human reality.

Thus with all that being said, I've personally come to understand that, moving towards universal normalization, all of the previous adopted ideas and belief systems do not necessarily need to be discarded as untrue, but it's only parts of them that we will take with us onto the universal normalization stage where we move towards understanding that everything is connected to all.

When we know, instead of believe that all previous learned systems have had their purpose and no longer serves us in that way, we can find peace and contentment in letting go of that. What matters the most at this stage, is not to convince ourselves of what is true, but to want to know what the truth really is. Even if that means that it shatters our idea of God as we thought it existed.

Spirituality and soul and all other terms become mere ways to describe what previously seemed mysterious, but as we move towards the universal normalization, all belief systems have to break away. Nothing of that will any longer be perceived as magic or supernatural. It's only through discarding previous belief systems and accepting that only what is real truth matters, that we will be able to push ourselves, and the rest of human kind towards the next version.