I Am Not Your Twin Flame (Understanding True Love) by Lady Justice

The title is based on reality of what happens in spiritual communities, and sort of a joke. It's an introduction on how we can take an idea and go with it, become even religious about it, depending on the depth we decide to believe in it. Recently I've felt that there might be a need for clearance of confusion and talk about love, soul theories and the dangers of creating stories in our heads, and starting to believe in them.

Namely, our human brains are exceptionally good at filling in the emptiness based on our needs. And so, see my following words as an exploration on what we call love and how I experienced that it's not changing, but rather our experience of it is different depending on how we deal with the emotions and feelings. We need to break ourselves free from pushing love into a preferred direction, and instead allow it to flow like a connection between two beings.

As human beings we are always searching for love. But what is it and why do we all experience it differently? How come some think they find it, while it might be unanswered or our partner doesn't know how to love us back? What we call love is an addiction, the highest attainable exchange of energy that we can possibly experience. I'd like to bring to the attention, that perhaps for centuries we have misinterpreted what we call ‘love’.

It's a complicated and expansive topic. Which is why I don't plan to go in too deeply today.

Within spiritually themed communities and groups, a lot of theories started to lead lives of their own and it has brought about its own challenges as well. Where some groups focus on love, or think they do, there is a clear distinction between enabling and support. The truth is that the ability to experience love, goes in various stages. Where as human beings we think that love comes in many forms, but in all truth it does not. Everything in our lives, goes through cycles and stages, nothing is actually static.

The energy exchange that we experience between a lot of humans, can be seen as neutral energy, it's when we realize that it reminds us of when our parents or caretakers were looking out for us, we realize that this must be love. But all in all, love is not changing. Remember, this form of love, or memory, can be imprinted on us, it is quickly making the connection in our brain that sends signals to our body that it reminds us of a good moment. I'd like to see this kind of love as the one that we as humans can agree on and acknowledge we've all experienced with someone that might not be our parents.

When we for example experience attraction, this is a bodily response to a partner, and as we move into marriage or relationship, we learn to understand our partner and the energy might evolve to a higher stage depending on our own personal development in each and every way (spiritually). But what if we know that we are capable of experiencing a higher energy than the kind of love that I described? Or our senses are more awakened as the beings that we are? Now please try to follow me here with what I’m going to share with you.

Some of the experiences I've had, have helped me to observe and rethink of what is really happening when we are able to receive the higher vibrational energy (the highest attainable kind of love energy). In some instances, our lives have been orchestrated in such a way; to help us learn and progress so we can move to a deeper understanding of what love really is.

I'd like for you to know, that higher love is attainable not only by monks, by not having to meditate for 7 hours straight every day. What is being taught by spiritual teachers is not as difficult as they make it seem, they only are trying to make it so, in order to make themselves seem more important and special. But by understanding this, I also need you to understand that the loving energy is present in everything. If you can grasp this concept and are willing to embrace that from here and are able to let go of seeing love as a human concept, then we are ready to move on. Simply put: love = energy.

The lessons we are getting in life about love are like I said, to help us move in stages. If we would be receiving the higher vibrational energy in certain lower states, it is sometimes too much to handle. Instances have shown (also from personal experience) that the intensity of higher vibrational energy as our friends from above are able to exchange and experience is too much to handle if we haven't worked through our stages that are necessary to move through.

Now this might all seem to become overly complicated. But I have to move you through this piece of information before you are able to grasp how we can actually learn to understand the higher vibrational energy. If I'm supposed to explain love, in its highest form, it is not possible for me to do so with a lower mind, I cannot explain it in a few words. All in all, our entire existence is a lesson in attaining higher vibrational energy, that much is correct. This is why, when we finally learn about the concept of it, we might encounter this BEFORE we have actually done all the necessary PRE-work with ourselves. It can cause some to lose themselves in the process, by not being able to grasp what this energy is, because the introduction of it might not be the right timing.

You might have encountered some of these who said to have experienced TwinFlame love, suddenly being interested in a particular sex (while they never have been), unavailable people or even spiraling into psychotic experiences and not knowing how to move themselves out of it. Instances have been breaking up relationships. In some cases, this is necessary for a person to know how to treat themselves, but other instances have driven people to obsession in an unhealthy sense when the lover has long left the picture.

The dangers within rests that all of those ideas will at a certain point be created in our minds. The reason why some go through these experiences is in order to learn and to be introduced to a higher form of energy, involved with human needs and urges. This can be intense and confusing if not treated properly for what it is.

We are being tested.

Some beings are able to exchange high vibrational energy and send it over to us. This might be happening in the form of channeling through other humans that they might have picked to work with you. Channeling has happened to me, is happening to me all the time and I have seen it happening through me, TO others.

The entire idea of this post is to help you understand how I've witnessed what high vibrational energy is. I've been introduced to this many times and each stage was a new one to learn from. That is why I want to express today: take this post with you as material to digest. Think about and weigh out what might exactly be happening to you when you are getting a good feeling that appears to be love. A lot of the times this is trying to teach us to get out of a bad life situation, and in the process will teach us more self-love.

The synchronicities of last week have pushed me to publish some words out there related to this and I think there's a lot to be talked about if we look at our personal situations in relation to exchange of love. Don't allow others to tell you what you are truly experiencing (especially if they have no clue) or your own ideas that are not truly connected to your real feelings to fester. What you are meant to do here on earth is to learn to understand high vibrational energy without exclusive human attachment as its only form.

Human love as opposed to (spiritual; higher vibrational) is limited.

Moving past this stage is freedom. It will help you make better choices and distinctions of who to be with and what direction to go to. In order to recognize what is good for you, you need to move through stages, and for everyone this is at a different timing. Don't only take my words solely for the truth. You have to know deep in your heart if something is true and go with that, and let this be your guidance in life.